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    The thing about cracks...
    • Nov 25, 2021
    • 3 min

    The thing about cracks...

    The first 'reform' journey I went on was in my faith. I had hit a point where there seemed so many 'cracks' in the faith of my youth that...
    Stop being who you should be; start being who you are.
    • Nov 15, 2021
    • 6 min

    Stop being who you should be; start being who you are.

    For 35 years, I lived my life being who I was supposed to be. Much of my ‘supposed to’s’ came from spending my formative years in the...
    The world is changing
    • Nov 11, 2021
    • 4 min

    The world is changing

    Something is happening around us. This ‘something’ is happening in our world, in our countries, in our institutions, in families and...
    How to Turn the Volume Down on Gaslighting
    • May 26, 2021
    • 2 min

    How to Turn the Volume Down on Gaslighting

    Many of us have adopted these poor beliefs about ourselves from comments thrown out by people we thought we could trust.
    My story of deconstruction
    • May 24, 2021
    • 7 min

    My story of deconstruction

    Deconstruction is a hard road: it can be scary and you can feel like you're risking everything.
    The anniversary after
    • May 18, 2021
    • 3 min

    The anniversary after

    In the past the 'form' of today was celebrating love with one man; today I celebrate love in all the ways it shows up in my life.
    A different kind of hard
    • May 13, 2021
    • 2 min

    A different kind of hard

    Staying in something toxic is hard, leaving or reforming is just a different kind of hard.
    What a five year old taught me last week
    • May 3, 2021
    • 2 min

    What a five year old taught me last week

    Keep moving. Keep changing your mind. Keep evolving forward. The 'you' who will exist in ten years' time will thank you for it.
    Learning to create a life giving rhythm
    • Apr 26, 2021
    • 3 min

    Learning to create a life giving rhythm

    My plate was way too full and I had little time left at the end of my day for rest or play or downtime.
    The good darkness
    • Dec 1, 2020
    • 2 min

    The good darkness

    Good darkness is about rhythm and season and knowing that we can let loose on control a little so that things can die, and others can live.
    The gift of crisis
    • Nov 24, 2020
    • 2 min

    The gift of crisis

    ifting through crisis brought me to a place where I shook out much of the toxic beliefs and behaviours in my work, life and faith.
    Caves
    • Nov 17, 2020
    • 3 min

    Caves

    “The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek.” Joseph Campbell
    Longing
    • Nov 10, 2020
    • 2 min

    Longing

    'The soul often speaks through longings'. Sue Monk Kidd.
    I don't have what it takes
    • Nov 3, 2020
    • 1 min

    I don't have what it takes

    I have a big decision to make: I find myself hiding and shrinking from making steps forward because the potential impact feels like a wave
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